she gets on my nerves. i see her about 4 times a week and spend the night at her house at least twice a week. i love her more than life itself, is it common for someone you love so much to get on your nerves?? i feel quilty.
stop seeing so much of her and you might appriciate her more,maybe you resent the time you have to spend with her,having lost my mother last year,it is hard to think someone would not like to spend a great deal of time with their mum,try and see less of her,if that helps,hope this does not sound to harsh,no offence meant
i just go thru these mood swings. i love her intensely and i would be lost without her. i quess i just spend too much time with her, but she is moody, and when she is when one of her dark moods, it really affects me. i still want to spend as much time as possible with her. streetsmart, the emotions i feel are just i get a little irritated at her. people tell me its natural that if you spend so much time with someone they are bound to get on your nerves. For the most part when she is in a good mood, she doesn't get on my nerves. She has very strong up and down moods. one extreme to the other. no middle ground. but i would rather die first before she does.
When you accept some one in ur life, u accept them with their all goods and bads, i mean a complete package, u didnt have an option to accept ur mom in ur life cuz she is the one who gave u the life, but as of rite now, she is ur mom, with all goods and bads she has......she is complete, some individual parts u may or may not like but over all its her that u love, one of ma frnds sent me this email few dayz back, i beleive it was to be channeled to u, see if it helps u understand wat i wanna say
"A daughter is telling her Mother how everything is going wrong, she's
failing algebra, her boyfriend broke up with her and her best friend is
moving away.
Meanwhile, her Mother is baking a cake and asks her daughter if she would
like a snack, and the daughter says, "Absolutely Mom, I love your cake."
Here, have some cooking oil," her Mother offers.
"Yuck" says her daughter.
"How about a couple raw eggs?"
"Gross, Mom!"
"Would you like some flour then? Or maybe baking soda?"
"Mom, those are all yucky!"
To which the mother replies: "Yes, all those things seem bad all by
themselves. But when they are put together in the right way, they make a
wonderfully delicious cake!
God works the same way. Many times we wonder why He would let us go through
such bad and difficult times. But God knows that when He puts these things
all in His order, they always work for good! We just have to trust Him and,
eventually, they will all make something wonderful!
i hope u get wat i wanna say!
GOOD LUCK and LOVE her more then ne thing, epecially in her DARK TIMES!
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